Happy Wednesday !
With the weather beautiful yes , yes Spring in February, glorious . Racing providing some excellent winners, life is good and satisfying :) Did I mention it's also half term so the kids around 24/7 I could not be happier ! So as I pondered what was going to be the subject of my blog today I thought maybe I would write about relationships .
I will focus on the ways you could be certain that a guy is into you and wants a relationship with you . Often we are so in love with someone we forget ourselves and throw ourselves into something only to be disappointed a little later .
The first sign is the guy will pursue you . You will feel his attention on you . When it suddenly feels like you are doing all the texting and you have to wonder all the time where is this guy, you are basically carrying the relationship that is not the guy that wants a relationship with you . The guy who wants a relationship with you will be right there pursuing you , letting you know I'm here .
The second thing if a guy is interested it will be Progression . A very important factor for a guy that is interested . He will want to see more of you that is Friday , Saturday and Sunday . He will be setting up plans letting you know in advance he wants to see you not keeping you as an option and vaguely say I would like to go out again and come Thursday you are still not sure if he's going to be in your weekend . He's probably waiting for something better in his own mind ... so that is definitely not the guy who wants a relationship with you . Always remember you are not the second best option . You are beautiful , you are number one and screw that guy he does not deserve you . You want a guy who makes you feel like he hit the jackpot , he goes around like I hit the lottery with this woman , she is amazing beautiful and I feel so lucky to have her in my life . If he doesn't make you feel that way he's a jackass and don't waste your time on him he's not looking for a relationship with you . The right guy will want to spend all his time with you make plans to do things that necessarily are not the things he would do ! Guys who are interested in progression another way is intimacy and in intimacy I mean they want to share everything about themselves with you that is the music they love , the things that make them proud . the food they love to eat . Everything they love to do, they try to make themselves open so you could get to know them better .
The third way, where you know a guy is interested in a relationship with you, what you will experience is Peace . Peace is when the relationship just flows you will feel relaxed . In each other's company there will be harmony a flow a sense of belonging a peacefulness . When you see couples who have been together for many years they say the secret to the relationship is peacefulness , it's easy the togetherness the flow the understanding it's not forced or faked just that happy everyday love together . If the relationship feels hard , forced a tug of war then that's not the guy who wants to be in a relationship with you , he's making things difficult and keeping his options open and looking out for someone else . Just remember when your with the right person it's really hard to screw up a good thing ,because deep down you want it to work it should be easy . Don't sell yourself short . He should want you and should be willing to show it . If not, he is not the one for you and he's not looking out for a relationship with you !
Hope these few tips helps you out and points you to a guy who is actually interested in you and wants to have a relationship you . A beautiful quote I love and want to share with you guys
“I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.”
Roy Croft
Have an awesome day and keep smiling !
Love & Peace
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