Happy Friday !
Nine days to Christmas , how exciting is that ?? My Christmas shopping is not all done some of the gifts for the kids have been bought and ordered from the online stores but I love the buzz of rushing around the shops closer to Christmas getting stuff done ! The extreme cold and snow is easing off a bit and I believe it will be milder around Christmas .
Today was the coming out show of I'm A Celebrity ( the Jungle ) on ITV at 9 pm . If you are a fan you would not have missed it . With all the controversy in the jungle when 3 grown men and a female tough woman ganged up and bullied one of the celebs . The bullies did their best to say they did not bully Iain but as a viewer it made for very uncomfortable viewing all the time in the jungle when they picked on their victim generally made him an outcast when they shared time talking about him . Iain Lee a broadcaster who was very gallant and said they did not bully him , but a victim feels like he can not say otherwise and bullies will never admit they are bullies . I have yet to see one bully say Yes I am a bully. They come in all ages and they make their victim feel guilty like they are not good enough . What upset me was the few friends that Iain did have inside like Jenny and Shabbi did not speak up and say YES that behaviour is bullying and we feel uncomfortable about your behaviour towards Iain . Bullies are enabled by fellow observers . The Bullies Amir Khan , Jamie Lomas , Dennis Wise & Rebbecca Vardy should feel ashamed of themselves and when they saw the backlash of their behaviour they should have apologised to Iain about it, not feel surprised we all are calling them bullies. For one the Vardy lady should not be an ambassador for Mental Health because she felt no sympathy for Iain and said he was playing a game . Depression is very real and she was the number one cause if he felt depressed with the situation in the jungle . With this little bit and my take on the subject I want people to feel more sympathetic towards other people . Dennis made so much about the hunger but there have been many series where the contestants too had little food and no stars were brought back . Dennis Wise is a spoiled selfish man and if he cared so much about the food maybe he should have quit the jungle and eaten 10 hamburgers like the glut he probably is .
Oh yes , if somebody says you are a bully , you very probably are ! So change your attitude and try to be kinder . Nobody says things without a reason !
With the weather calling for our warmest jackets , here are a few of my picks . Enjoy the holiday season and be kind. We all want to feel loved and cherished .
1 belted fur coat / 65 dollars / rosegal.com
2 velvet jacket / 40 pounds / withchic.com
3 tweed jacket / 85 dollars / chicwish.com
4 belted coat / 25 euros / zaful.com
Keep smiling and have an awesome day !
Love & Peace
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