Wednesday, May 31, 2017

Tips to Stay Young - Old & Fat, So Yesterday!

Happy Wednesday!

Wherever you are in your day I hope you are smiling! With every birthday we get older but it's now widely accepted that we feel and look younger than our parents and grandparents. The new 40 is 30, and 50 is 40, and 60 is 45, well you go figure! Just a few weeks ago Ellen DeGeneres and Matt Lauer were sitting around talking about being proud that they were turning 60 and how good they felt but isn't it funny that they also look unnaturally too young for it maybe it's all the botox and fillers. But we don't actually need to go that far with plastic surgery. The key to staying young, looking young, and feeling young is taking care of yourself. Don't let yourself go by letting your weight creep up and down. Maintain a steady weight which your skin will thank you for. The elasticity of the skin is key, so make sure you are well hydrated and moisturized. You don't want to end up looking like the surface of Mars who screams ''Moisturize me!''

So let me list you the reason why you could be feeling old and fat and perhaps you could take steps to remedy the culprits.
1. You are not eating the right foods and not getting enough healthy fats. Eating fruits and veg is one of the easiest ways to keep slim and have plenty of health benefits to boot!
2. You are eating too many carbs and starches. By not eating a balanced diet you could easily have a lot of consequences. Eat an equal amount of fruit and veg to balance your carbs and proteins.
3. Not moving enough. If you don't get enough exercise you could get overweight, feel tired and stiff and start getting body aches and fatigue! We need to move and be active in order to get hungry again and keep our brain functioning well. Physical activity is key. Be it going for an hour's walk everyday in addition to using the stairs every time!
4. Stress is a big factor in feeling old. Try not to stress about the stuff. Because if you have problems and troubles by stressing about it, it's not going to vanish overnight. Try to look for solutions and write down what's bothering you. If you read it back to yourself you could easily think up solutions, write these down too and then try and work your way through conquering them!
5. The last reason for feeling and looking old is not enough sleep. Whatever you do, try and achieve 8 hours of sleep a day. It is very little compared to the 24 hours we have in a day. Sleep those hours and you will be feeling younger and more bright eyed and active. Sleep is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves!
Lastly, I want to say use a face cream. Man or woman, from 20 years old till the day you die use the cream, and look great. Like you would your face, use body lotion all over your body every day. A great way to keep your skin young and healthy. When you're old and grey your older self will be thankful you started caring for yourself young !


Hope this was useful. Have an awesome day and keep smiling.

Love & Peace.

Sunday, May 28, 2017

Outfit Recommendation & Good Karma!

Happy Weekend!

In England it's bank holiday weekend, and it's been hot , sort off !! The rains throughout the North were a bit of a downer, but it all blew over, and the sun and good weather was all around! In the US everyone is celebrating Memorial day  and the barbecues must be all out and officially everyone is wearing their white attire!
Today I watched on BBC2 the ''Life Swap Adventure'' with interest. It's always exciting to see two people from 2 different cultures swap lives. The thing I loved the most about it is how close family is, in culture away from the west. It's quite normal to work very hard in the west and as your family grow up and leave home , you hardly ever make time to see them regularly. I would love to always have close contact with my children , after they grow up and leave home. How much of what we have learnt do we pass down to our kids ? Nowadays children learn so much from the internet ,we don't really have that much stuff, knowledge, or skill they would need to learn from us. Though as often as I can, values and culture are some of the only things I can give them. One of the most important things I always try to share is, how important self esteem is. In a world of social media, this is one thing all children should have in abundance. Because there are loads of people out there who only give out one thing, and that is abuse and name calling. If you check their feeds you will see they regularly call people names. Stand firmly on your ground, and let them shout because in a few days you will see these same people buffering all sorts of problems , had to laugh because karma is a very real thing !! Do wrong and watch it bite you back . Yes, jealousy is also very bad especially ,if someone is genuine and honest with you. No good comes to jealousy. You lose a good relationship and doing wrong to someone can only cause grief & unhappiness.Be the best person you can be. Don't mix with people who call your friends names, and don't ever put a woman down or allow somebody to say rude things to her. Remember we are here on earth to spread good, love and peace. Tell your friends stop this now and respect women, a man should never speak ill of a woman. It's disgraceful and people who mix with those ,are disgraceful themselves. So much talk over this derby rider and horse . Just be happy for her , but humans like showing their ugly nature !

Here is a lovely outfit recommendation. Summer is just around the corner, and jumpsuits are the fashion go-to at the moment! So stay trendy with this beautiful dusty pink jumpsuit and wedges.

 1. floral lace romper / 29 dollars / oasap.com
2. jennifer lopez wedges / 45 euros / kohls.com
3. crystal necklace choker / 11 pounds / withchic.com
4. nude o ring clutch bag / 25 pounds / Missselfridge.com
5. boyfriend denim jacket / 35 dollars / Le3no.com

Be good and have an amazing long weekend. Keep smiling!

Love & Peace.

Thursday, May 25, 2017

5 Products for Frizzy Hair!

Happy Thursday!

If you have curly, wavy hair like me then the slightest amount of rain, heat, or central heating can cause all you hair to feel dry and get frizz. With summer not so long off and many of my readers and followers are also from warmer countries, so it's all about smooth and hydrated - manageable hair we all long to have. These five great anti-frizz products will keep your hair moisturized and won't weigh your hair down, and actually work. I have tried and tested them all!

At no. 5 is Nanokeratin Re-Invent Leave In Conditioner and costs a hefty £25.55. I loved this product and will use it again.

No. 4, Alterna Bamboo Smooth Frizz Correcting Styling Lotion, A very nice product that costs £16.24.

No. 3, Davineo Momo Moisturizing Anti Frizz Fluid, just a dollop of this smoothing cream after towel drying your hair will detangle and hydrate from root to tip. Costs $22 and available from Barneys.com. The bottle is plain and not very attractive, but the product is great.

No. 2, It's a 10! Miracle Leave-in Product, this costs a whopping $34. But like its name, it's a 10 from me!

No 1, my favorite, and at the top of my list is Bumble and Bumble Defrizz. It costs $25 dollars and is available at Sephora.com. A must try!


Hope you find the list handy for the next time you go shopping. Don't let a bad hair day spoil your mood. These great products will have you feeling like a princess with silky, glossy hair.

Keep smiling and have an awesome day.

Love and Peace. 

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Sadness At the Manchester Attack #RIP Little Souls Lost!

Good morning / afternoon / evening / night, wherever you are in your day,
I'm sure you have heard the sad news about the Manchester attack at the end of the concert of Ariana Grande. Such an atrocity against children and teenagers, it's the worst kind of terrorist incident. Targeting the young speaks of the wickedness right to the soul of these heartless terrorists. But I still light the candle of hope that the world will become a better place one day without terror, war, bombs, nuclear weapons, guns etc. All those children who lost their lives because they loved music. Very, very sad. Music is supposed to promote love, joy, and good vibes. I always remember John Lennon's beautiful song ''Imagine'' that's what we will continue to do to imagine and keep the faith, the love and hope, peace will continue to inspire the hearts of those wanting to wreck and destroy the world , and change them may God bring peace &love to all .Sending out positive vibes to all around Manchester affected by this terrible attack on the young and defenseless. A few lines from the beautiful song, Imagine.
''You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one''



#RIP all those who lost their lives in Manchester. You all will live on in our memories forever.

Love & Peace.

Saturday, May 20, 2017

Best Buys for Beautiful Skin!

Happy Saturday!

If you want to keep your skin great, soft and youthful - you have to start looking after it! In order to get the best out of your skin, more and more beauty products are being manufactured to help us retain out beauty and youth. With so many products out on the market, it can be confusing what to choose. I am going to list five great products to help you get started.

1. Toner
Toning lotion with Witch Hazel is an oldie but a goldie. The gentle, all natural liquid ''Dickenson's Original Witch Hazel'' costs $6, but it does the trick. It doesn't sting while sapping sweat and oil from your face. Dab it lightly with a cotton ball to help de-grease your complexion without dulling your glow.

2. Anti-Age Exfoliator
The best one is ''Pro X by Olay Micro Peel.'' This one boasts a trio of glycolic, citric, and lactic acids to disintegrate dull, dead skin cells and makes way for a fresher complexion. After just one week you will see more radiant skin. And because it has glycerine in it, you can use it even in the dead of winter because it will give you extra hydration.

3. A De-Coloration Treatment
''Skin Medicine Lytera'' is perfect, if you have been obsessed with wrinkles but have forgotten about all the sun damage and sun spots that have cropped up on your nose and cheeks. This brightener can help you play catch up in the pigment reduction department.

4. A Moisturizer
Is very essential and this one for a normal skin tone is a real winner. ''Aveeno Positively Radiant SPF30.'' This lotion delivers a respectably high SPF with a lightweight, non-sticky consistency. Of costs a very reasonable 15 dollars, a great buy!

5. Anti-Age Eye Roller
Last of the five would have to be a very important one. We need to look after our delicate eye area and this this anti-aging eye treatment is worth its weight in gold. It's from Garnier ''Skin Active Renew Eye Roller'' is a tool that checks all the boxes for a great formula to give you great looking skin around the eyes. It has a cooling metal tip which you can massage around your eyes to get blood flowing. It decreases puff as well has glycerine to moisturize. Feels therapeutic and you actually want to whip it out in the morning, lunch-time and night-time and get rolling!


Have an awesome day and keep smiling.

Love & Peace.

Thursday, May 18, 2017

Delicious Lemon and Olive Chicken!

Happy Thursday!

Today we all woke up to the news Chris Cornell, lead singer of Soundgarden, passed away at the age of only 52! It was sudden and unexpected, wrote all the news articles. Tragic news no one wants to hear of someone passing away so young. At the prime, everyone does get better age. We gain wisdom, life experiences, maturity and patience. A talented person to join a long list of tragic rock stars to die too young. RIP dude.

Today, I'm sharing one of my favorite dishes I love to cook a Spanish chicken with lemon and olives. It's packed with flavor and delicious with a salad and a cold beer! Enjoy.

Spanish chicken with lemon and olives.

Ingredients:
1.2kg chicken thigh fillets, trimmed
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 brown onion, halved, roughly chopped
2 garlic cloves, sliced
400g can diced tomatoes
1 small lemon, sliced
1 tablespoon brown sugar
2 teaspoons fresh oregano leaves
1 cup (180g) pitted

Instructions:
1.Season chicken with salt and pepper. Heat oil in a large, heavy-based saucepan over medium-high heat. Cook chicken in batches, turning, for 5 minutes or until browned. Remove to a plate.
2. Add onion and garlic to saucepan. Cook, stirring, for 3 minutes or until just soft. Return chicken to saucepan. Add tomatoes, lemon, sugar and oregano. Bring to the boil.
3. Reduce heat to medium-low. Simmer, uncovered, for 40 minutes or until chicken is cooked through and sauce thickened. Stir in olives. Season with salt and pepper. Serve.


Have an awesome day and keep smiling.

Love & Peace.

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

Summer Perfect - High Waisted Bikini's!

Happy Tuesday,

Today the sun shone and the weather spoke Summer. Summer is here! The birds chirped and the smell of happiness was in the air. What made this day feel so special, well for one thing, I was certain it was going to be a better day than yesterday! Why is social media so popular? Well because you can hit up a bigger number of people. But with larger audiences comes invariably the trolls, the insane, the bullies, and women haters! Poor Hayley Turner was called a waste of a chair and happily people retweeted, but if a woman can't stand by a woman it's a sad world! People love to put someone smaller in stature down. Hayley is the reason why the ITV racing show is viewed. Rest assured the two men bring very little to the programme. I happily watched when it was on channel 4 but the whole presentation along with the 2 male presenters make it half the show it used to be on Channel 4 , the Energiser Bunny aka Yee Haa is another failure adding to a sinking ship ! If it wasn't for the horse racing I wouldn't be tuning in. Most of the time between races I turn on another channel , my zapper is so handy . I'm sure a lot of people will agree with me, ITV racing sucks big time and Hayley is the only reason that makes it worthwhile ! Her form , knowledge and info when she's not being cut off , is charming. Do not put anyone down and more so if it's a woman. The female is the nurturer, the giver of life, the earthly presence which makes everything more loving, satisfying, and habitable. Could you imagine a world with only men? Women are built in all shapes and forms, hair color and size. Everyone appreciates a different kind of woman. So if she's not what you classify as beautiful don't call her a waste of chair. She is a lot of other people's dream. Be kind in your life and reap rewards. It's the universe's pay out.

Here are some gorgeous high-waisted bikinis to get ready for summer. Hope you find your particular favorite here!

1. Striped bikini black and white / 36 euros / Etsy.com
2. blue striped bikini / 24 euros / Rotita.com
3. pineapple bikini / 33 pounds / Etsy.com
4. vintage bikini / 26 dollars / Rosegal.com

Have an awesome day and keep smiling!

Love & Peace.

Sunday, May 14, 2017

God's gift, a Mother! #mothersday

Happy Sunday!

Today all around the world except in the UK it was celebrated as Mother's day. All my friends and peeps were posting little tribute's to their Mums, dead or alive or to their peers who were mothers. We all love and appreciate our mothers for all their love, support, guidance, and caring they give to us. Today is the perfect day to show your gratitude to your Mum. My kids gave me some nice little pressies which didn't need to cost the earth but was something I love. Body lotion I can never have enough of it , I love to spread that stuff on my body as much as I can. Chocolates are a treat I was happy to receive them but they are difficult to finish, lol so they will help me finish the box or else come next Mother's day it will be %75 in tact. Mother's all over the world, yeah the UK celebrated weeks ago but still hope you all took time out for rest, relaxation, and me time. Remember the more time you give yourself the less stressed you will be when dealing with your kids. You will have more patience and understanding and sympathy. Mums you do know that if you ever wanted to do something for yourself, the time is now. Don't put it off, no matter how old you are take that step and remember it's never too late to start over. To get out of old habits to start living a healthy lifestyle, to get fit and active. To give up eating meat, if that's what you want. Start today. If you happen to feel depressed, talk about it, share your thoughts, join a group and remember you are never alone. No matter how bad it seems, sit it out tomorrow is another day and it will get better!



Have an enjoyable evening, put your feet up and watch a good movie to put you in a better mood. A personal favorite of mine is Drew Barrymore's '50 First Dates'

#happymothersday and keep smiling!

Love & Peace.

Friday, May 12, 2017

Casual Outfit For the Weekend!

Happy Friday!

The Chester races are in full swing and if every other day was sunny, today it rained and rained. But of course nothing could dampen the spirits of the race goers! The people were out in full force, all armed with a brolley and their bet slips. A few of the favorites won. Ryan Moore obliged on Cliffs of Moher, just beating William Buick on Bay of Poets. Frankie Detorri shone on Western Hymn making sure Ryan was trumped into 2nd place. I celebrated my win singing and dancing amazing grace all over the farm. Poor Ryan again in the evening at Ascot suffered the sour taste of defeat when his Horse Graphite Storm expected to win , was by a short head into 2nd place by a 33/1 horse Hajij trained by C. Fellows & ridden by the talented handsome Irish jockey Stevie Donohoe .Horse racing also has its downsides. All over the news in the last few days featured jockeys losing their jobs with trainers but in a world where one person can't hold down one ride forever is well known. People become complacent. If trainer's and owners decide to have a new face riding their horse. It's their decision. So much for moaning it's a kick in the teeth for the people taking these decisions.
Today Harry Bentley gave a very graceful interview about his lost job with Jacobs. He's young and will move on stronger and better. Dougie Costello is also now showing how resilient he is, the first race at Chester today saw him win on Sound Advice, a 12/1 horse. Well done Dougie!
Friday is an awesome day. It welcomes the weekend. Today also saw the new Masterchef Champion crowned. The first time an Asian / British girl won (at least if I remembered correctly). A very talented junior doctor who has turned her hand to cooking and produced some of the best plates of food I've ever seen. A Pakistani girl who I suppose will now give up her job at Walford General job to go chefie full-time! In the Great British menu, first time winner through to the finals was Tom Brown who will represent the South West. Poor Dom after 3 times still couldn't hack it. What can I say, Brown's are talented and the tattoo's were not bad too!

Hope you like this recommended outfit for the day. Saturday evening at the movies or a date. Dress up and don't let your spirit flag. We have one life. Live it to the full!

1. midrise boyfriend jeans / 27 euros / withchic.com
2. mustard flared sleeved t shirts / 30 pounds / mango.com
3. booties / 75 dollars / Fsjshoes.com
4. lemon zip patch / 23 euros / nordstromrack.com
5. pendant necklace / 2 euros / rosegal.com

Hope you are having an awesome day! Keep smiling.

Love & Peace.

Wednesday, May 10, 2017

Barbecued Potato Salad!

Happy Wednesday!

A grilled, barbecued potato salad with a mayo / mustard dressing is so delicious for dinner. Especially with these mild days coming soon. It's delicious, refreshing, and very easy to put together. Your family will love it! It's one of my favorites.

ingredients:
750 gms of small salad potatoes
3/4 tablespoons of vegetable oil
1 small onion
6 strips of bacon
1/2 a cup of dill or a herb of your choice
3 spring onions
1/2 a cup of mayonnaise
1/4 cup of mustard
1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar
salt and pepper to taste

Instructions:
Heat your grill and put your potatoes up to boil, 8 mins is enough you want a little bite to it before you put it under the grill.
Drain the potatoes toss them in 2 tablespoons of vegetable oil put them under the grill so that they can brown and slightly char.
While the potatoes are grilling cut the onion and toss it in oil before slightly roasting them off also under the grill. Once they are done remove it from under the grill and allow the potatoes and onions to cool.
Next get the bacon strips done, also under the grill but keep turning them alot it can cook really quick and burn. Keep an eye on it! When it is done remove it and chop it u.
In a large bowl combine the mayo, the mustard and the apple-cider vinegar and mix. Now add the potatoes, onions and bacon and stir it through. Last of all add the dill or your herb of choice and the spring onions. Season with salt and pepper and chill or serve it slightly warm with a nice french baguette!


Hope you enjoy it.

Have an awesome day and keep smiling.

Love & Peace.

Monday, May 8, 2017

Get Stylish with Fashionable Shoes!

Happy Monday!

France saw Macron win yesterday. Obviously the French are more sensible than the British. I keep wondering how is it better if EU citizens can't travel to the UK but people from outside the EU have the biggest immigration inflow into the UK. If you walk in many parts of England you will notice that non-Europeans are the biggest problem of the UK. EU people look like and blend in with the regular British person whereas those from outside the EU are easily spotted. Brexit is the biggest mistake of the UK. Hopefully with the upcoming elections in June mistakes can be remedied! Please register to vote before the 22nd and make your vote and voice heard. Labour is the best choice for the people with the common man in mind. We want to be rid of homelessness, food banks, more money into the NHS, schools, and services. An inspirational quote which I love is by Eleanor Roosevelt, ''Do what you feel in your heart to be right-- for you'll be criticized anyways.'' I have made that a rule in my life. I follow my heart because those that care will stay and those that never bothered will never bother anyways!

Here are some beautiful shoes to add to your wardrobe and make those summer outfits more stunning!

 1. red heels / 43 dollars / adroabstyle.com
2. yellow sandals / 49 dollars / shoemall.com
3. blue suede wedges / 40 euros / newlook.com
4. pink wedge sandals / 25 euros / charlotterusse.com
5. pink stiletto velvet sandal / 38 dollars / victoriaswing.com
6. metallic platforms / 46 euros / very.co.uk

Have an awesome day and keep smiling.

Love & Peace.

Saturday, May 6, 2017

My Most Loved Movies Set in Paris!

Happy Saturday!

The weekend is always a welcome relief. Time to relax, be lazy and not get out of your pajamas 'till late afternoon. Watch the racing on TV, lie back on the couch sipping some warm cups of chai followed by some cream cup cakes and scones. When eventually you get yourself showered and dressed, dinner needs to be cooked and then a nice lazy evening. Most would want to be entertained with a beautiful movie. At least that's what I love. And what better than a movie set in a beautiful country abroad to make you appreciate something different than your everyday movies set at home (USA or UK). Today, I have made a list of four of my favorite movies set in Paris. ''The city of lights.''

At 4: Paris, Je T' Aime
This is essentially 18 short films like one massive love letter to Paris. It has a stunning cast. Literally the who's who in the film world. Great directors because each story has its own director. The theme is love in each story. But its interpretations are so vastly different and if you don't find the time to watch this , you are seriously missing out!

3: Before Sunset
This is the second installment from a trilogy which picks up in Paris nine years after Jesse and Celine first met on a train to Vienna. The ending is a bit vague but it's intentional. It's clear that fate connected those two together for a reason. It stars Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy.

2. Belle de Jour
it's based on Joseph Kessel's 1928 novel of the same name. This 1928 fetishist masterpiece is way ahead of its time. A prim and proper doctor's wife who is secretly into some kinky stuff. She can't act out her fantasies with her husband, so she takes up prostitution while he's away at work. Hence the title ''Lady of the Day'' - a must see!

No. 1 Midnight in Paris
I adore this film, and have seen it a few times . This Woody Allen movie starring Owen Wilson is superb. He plays a Hollywood screenwriter who is vacationing with his fiancee's family in Paris, and inexplicably finds himself time traveling to the 1920's at the stroke of midnight where he meets all the manner of greats-- Cole Porter, Ernest Hemingway, Gertrude Stein, Pablo Piccaso, and the Fitzgeralds. The movie is a classic. Enjoy it sometime.


Well, hope you find time to enjoy my selection wherever you are in your day. I hope you are smiling. Have a wonderful weekend!

Love & Peace.

Thursday, May 4, 2017

Mexican Tacos for the Weekend!

Happy Thursday.

Today I wanted to share with you all, one of my favorite dishes! Mexican Tacos! This will go down a treat for weekend.

It's a big hit with my children and I love it too. So happy cooking and Bon Appetit!

Ingredients:

  • 500g pack lean minced beef
  • 1 tbsp sunflower oil
  • 1½ tbsp dried oregano
  • 4 garlic cloves, crushed
  • 2 tsp ground cumin
  • 2tsp paprika
  • pinch chilli flakes
  • 24 taco shells

  • Instructions:
    Heat a large frying pan until very hot, then brown the mince. Remove, then season with salt and pepper. Add the oil to the pan and fry the garlic, oregano and spices for 1 min until fragrant. Return the beef to the pan and toss well, then cook for 2-3 mins until hot through. Warm the taco shells following the pack instructions and serve with the beef.


    An inspiring quote from Vincent Van Gogh, ''I dream my painting, and I paint my dream.'' You too can ''Dream your life, and make it come true.''

    Have awesome day. Keep smiling!

    Love & Peace.

    Tuesday, May 2, 2017

    Spring Fashion Crop Tops

    Happy Tuesday!

    Today is the 2nd of May, how fast the months are flying by it's almost half the year behind us. Summer on our doorstep but the winter weather insists on following us! Little Princess Charlotte turned 2 years old, she shares her birthday with the most loved footballer, 'golden balls', David Beckham. Who gets more handsome with age. Today marks a whole year ago when my most favorite person passed away. I valued all his opinions and advice and looked forward everyday to what he had to say. I cried tears for a long time and miss his sense of humor and his art of writing. If you wonder who it is, the person was none other than Jonathan Cainer. He was too young to leave this world so soon. I miss him, the kind, generous person he was. RIP Jonathan.
    In case anyone missed the news item, Cheryl and Liam have eventually settled on a name for their baby son. They saddled him with Bear Payne. I wonder if that's the kind of gift any parents would decide for their child. People should think harder on names and not give their children the first name they happen to love. It should be appropriate with their surname. Of course we do live in an age of rashness and foolhardy and the Tories!
    Everyone, don't forget you have until the 22nd to register to vote. Don't miss your chance. Your voice makes the difference. Vote Labour. We need the change for the world to be a better place!

    Lastly, here is my outfit recommendation. Crop tops, specially curated for the Spring time. I hope you like my picks.

    1. knitted crop top / 42 dollars / Chicwish.com
    2. floral lace top / 24 pounds / Mango.com
    3. burgundy frill cami / 9 euros / missselfridge.com
    4. floral off the shoulder / 19 dollars / rosegal.com
    5. blue velvet choker bralette / 5 pounds / prettylittlething.com

    Keep smiling and have an awesome day.

    Love & Peace.