Tuesday, July 4, 2017

Optimism & Positivity Big Traits To Succeed!

Happy Monday!

July is flying by, do you feel it? Tomorrow is the 4th, Independence day so it's barbecues, parties fireworks, and family get-togethers. In The UK it's the start of Wimbledon the tennis tournament which every summer is the highlight of everyone's calendar. We haven't had many warm days and there has been so much rain. Hope it stays dry and sunny to stir up the festive mood!

Today the Duchess of Cambridge showcased a new hairstyle. It was a lot shorter and a little choppy. It was an improvement, though one side was curled more and it appeared her hair was uneven, lol. Well that was me being a perfectionist with hair. It is of course our crowning glory. Everybody wants to appear fabulous. That is why today as I watched Botched Celebs on Channel 5 after Big Brother. I wondered why Gail Porter, who was stunning, has allowed herself to fall away. I know she suffered allopacia but that was no reason to be bald. There are plenty of good wigs on the market and she needs to invest in them. It would help her self esteem and make her feel whole again. She has a lot of sadness in her eyes. We don't always have all we want in life but we must overcome our hurdles and do the the best we can to improve our life and make ourselves happy. I am so glad she got that boob reduction and the new pair is perfect. The doctor did a grand job and Gail needs to get back in the spotlight. It would give a lot of confidence to other people in the same position as her the step they need. Gail get yourself a beautiful wig, my advice.

We all lose confidence at some point in our life. Be it as we get older. But we see how other people around us cope and we take heart. Generally we look to celebrities as our role models. I am very moved by Kourtney Kardashian. She has 3 children, but after her break-up with Scott she is now with a 24 year old. Okay so I don't need a boyfriend so much younger than myself but I should not feel bad. I like someone who's four years younger than myself, lol. What does society think about an older woman / younger man? Times have changed but men generally prefer a younger woman, so I've got no big hopes of landing the man of my dreams. So you see how we all must live with disappointments. I'm not ever going to let anything bring me down. We all must learn to be optimistic and continue living our life still striving to achieve our goals and be happy.

Optimism is the key, don't bring yourself down. Stay positive, good thoughts attract good things into your life. Love life, smile, and watch yourself attract the people you want in your life.  Somebody once said, ''how does a french woman manage to stay so attractive for her man?'' Watch a Frenchman gaze at his woman even if they have been together 20 years. The secret is to be nice, don't yell at your man, don't get sloppy around him. Put on sexy clothes keep your hair well groomed and always be affectionate. Men like attention and to be looked after. If you spoil him, chances are he's not going to be chasing other women. If you have a problem with him say it in a nice way, write him a note, and always be interested in the things he loves, if you don share his interests chances are the relationship is doomed. See The beautiful Princess Diana & Charles, it was ill matched. He loves the witch Camilla because she likes all the stuff he does and she acts like a mother around him, so he's eating out of her hands. Try to work your magic, even if its hard. You will succeed.

Hope you enjoyed reading this and a #Happy4thJuly  Keep smiling and have an awesome day .



Love & Peace.

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