It was so exciting to wait all day for the evening when Celebrity Apprentice USA would return to our screens !! Yes we all love Celebrities , me included , but we are really behind ( BBC UK ) it was the 2011 , Celebrity Apprentice USA . I'm not quibbling though , it's always fun to watch with such huge stars taking part , it's a treat ... the petty arguments , fights , back stabbing , fall outs , No they are not immune to the common person's human behavior ! What really threw me was the Bully Boy tactics of Richard Hatch , he actually pushed ( Physically ) David Cassidy and Donald Trump didn't FIRE him but ditched Cassidy !! I was shocked , my blog had to be written about Bully's . For one I'm glad it was shown in the late evening /night and my children were in bed . What kind of impression is Trump trying to give people ?? It's okay to push someone around , talk down to them , tell lies , be patronizing , Hatch even called David a Little Person , he called Jose unintelligent , and then Mr. Trump says David Cassidy doesn't have what it takes to stay on !!! Kidding me ?? Hatch needed to be ordered out of the show , he 's a poor human being !!
Bully's exist because people like Trump , justify their behaviour and say it's okay ,so they become more aggressive in life , knowing they have back up and support !!
Alot of the time bully's use their size , always targeting someone smaller than themselves . I know because I have had people alot taller than me intimidating me . I unlike Cassidy , know exactly how to stand up and give as good as I get .. but bully's thrive of somebody 's soft demeanor , calm exterior and try to be bossy and dominate. No I don't encourage anyone's aggressive attitude , I will take them down a few pegs . Being not a very tall person 5 feet 1 inch , it's easy to think I could be bullied . My children's father was very tall at 6 foot 3 and thought I could be bullied .. No I stood up for myself , so now I am alone with the children but happy . One thing I 'm pleased about is my eldest daughter's height at 5 foot 10 , No one is going to bully her now , she had been bullied as a child at her school which was very unfortunate , but she studied in the Netherlands where bullying is done all the time !! Hence I dumped my husband moved back here with the kids and could not be happier . My children have NO desire to see Holland or any of their kind ever again .
Bullying is a nasty habit and the sooner people are told to their face , YOU are a BULLY , stop that behaviour and seek therapy , can the world be a better place . Children as young as they are , learn better how to be a good person if they are told off , and excuses ,are not made for their behaviour ..like OH ,they are just trying to be funny .. because not everyone finds that kind of humor hysterical !!
Thankfully I am blessed with 3 very good children , but that's because I'm am very strict parent , and have rules which have to be maintained . They get told off , if need be ...but I never need too because they are very good and make me proud everyday .
I do know alot of parents for whatever misguided reason , don't have the nerve to tell their children off , hence they can create rifts between them ! The precious ones tend to become bully's and have no conciseness in their behaviour and lack family loyalty .
Siblings need to love each other , and always keep each other as a priority . I have made sure to ingrain in my children they should always love each other and through out life , look out for each other , protect them and be there for each other . Or else I'm not taking sides , if one is bad it will be said by me ..
To this day it pains me , that my brother has behaved like a jerk and my parents , mainly my mother when she was alive did nothing about it .. When I asked her , Why don't you tell him something , and she said to me , No I won't tell him anything , I know his wife is wicked , but she loves him and is good for him , so that's all that matters !! Well , what can I say to that !!! People though in death , always wonder later , Why the hell , didn't I say something ?? It's too late for that ..
The whole lesson of this is Never Bully anyone !! Always say what you have to say when you are alive , it doesn't have to be rude , but a firm talking too does wonders !!
Hope you enjoyed reading this . Be a hero and take care of somebody . Do good , blessings come swift and fast !! Take Care everybody and have an awesome week .Bye for now !!
#Peace & Love
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